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About me

Grieving Coach

You don't have to grieve alone.

As a Grieving Coach I support people who have been touched by grief, either through the death or loss of a loved one, or through life's experiences. Grief can be a complicated experience, one that society doesn't necessarily acknowledge nor value. As a coach I accompany people in their life journeys, holding space for them as they explore their individual grief and what it means to them.

My support style is to greet you where you are in your grieving journey and walk with you along your path. I can help you bring warmth, light, and healing into your experience. I provide a safe place for you to sit with and express your grief. Through active listening and powerful questions I can help you discover new insights about yourself and your situation. Together we can access the greatness and answers that already lie within yourself.

If you are interested, I am open to adventure and willing to meet with you wherever you feel comfortable. I would be honored to accompany you on your journey through grief.

As a Grieving Coach I will:

My perspectives on death and grief

Death is amazing.

Death can be an amazing opportunity for growth. I've always seen death as a beautiful transition. I describe it as a portal into the next phase of life. When the body dies, I believe the spirit, or essence of a person, continues living and progressing. For me death is like a job transfer. The description of the work may change a bit, and the location changes, but the person remains the same-- with the same personality traits, strengths, and idiosyncrasies that they had before their death. The knowledge they have gained and relationships they have cultivated in mortality continue to grow with them in their new environment. After our loved ones depart, they still love us and they are still championing our cause. They can help us in our work, sometimes even better than they could while in mortality.

Grief is amazing.

Grieving is hard. Grief is a hammer. It can destroy us or build us up. When approached with gentle curiosity and openness, grief can be an amazing teacher. Grieving can be a sacred time to focus on the loved ones who have passed, honor them, and remember them. Their presence can sometimes be felt and seen in incredible and miraculous ways. As we go through the grieving process, we can let grief go through us and transform us with tenderness and power and grace. Grieving also provides us with opportunities to reach out to others for help. Then, as our strength increases, we can begin to feel compassion and empathy for others. We can consequently offer support to those who may be experiencing similar challenges. In this way we can forge deep and meaningful relationships that invite us to look beyond ourselves.

You are amazing.

Grief and loss give us opportunities to change. We can alter our thought patterns, develop amazing strength within ourselves, and receive the beautiful gifts the Universe has to offer. The passing of our loved ones reminds us that life is full of change and impermanence. When we recognize this, we are often motivated to live and love more fully. Our individual grief journeys can be a time for intimate exploration of the powerful emotions which arise: sadness, anger, guilt, curiosity, gratitude, love, and countless others. All of our feelings, regardless of their label, are neutral and healthy. Emotions are not positive or negative. They are insights into our psyche and, as such, provide valuable information about how we process the world and our experiences.

When done in a constructive way, grieving can allow us to expand our ability to cope. As we practice sitting with the discomfort and doing hard things, our capability to do so increases. This can bring miraculous and incredible changes into our thought and behavioral patterns. Practicing self-care while listening to our bodies and emotions can help us be gentle with ourselves and become more self-sufficient. This can build self confidence and trust that the Universe will not only fill our needs, but satisfy our desires as well.

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For some resources to help you through your grief journey, click here.

If you would like information about my vision as a Grieving Coach or help bringing sunshine into your journey, please contact me at jenn@grievingcoach.com or (925) 335-6437.